You deserve a

safe & beautiful

birth experience

with Dr. Vanita as your holistic pregnancy coach.

Photo credit: Kate Kennedy 

Birth can be a transformative & beautiful experience

As a pregnancy coach, my mission is to help You move beyond fear to empower You to make your own unique choices inspired by love.

Unnecessary & preventable cesareans increase many risks for mothers and newborns, including maternal deaths. Learn the real risks and reasons for our excessive cesareans in my blog.

Do you know ?

  • For years, our infant & maternal death rates have been worse than in other developed countries.

  • America spends more than these countries on maternity care.

  • One in three births is by cesarean (32%).

  • Per the World Health Organization, at least half of the cesareans performed were preventable or unnecessary.

  • Black, Native American & Hispanic mothers and babies have higher death rates than whites because of societal and healthcare racism.

  • Almost one in three labors are artificially induced (31%).

  • Complications for mothers & newborns are rising because of routine medical interference in normal labor.

  • Birth has become a 9-5 Monday-Friday business.

  • Countries with better maternity statistics embrace educated midwives and provide all their citizens with healthcare insurance.

Why is this?

Gratefully, medically dominated maternity care initially improved mothers’ and newborns’ health dramatically. However, since it began, it also brought routine dubious procedures that increased women’s and babies’ risks. Now, the highly unbalanced techno-medical approach treats almost all pregnancies as a disease and birth as a potential disaster waiting to happen. This attitude often increases families’ fears. Birth is now Big Business. Our current system, which intentionally displaced midwives earlier in this century, continues to favor a masculine approach. Our epidemic of unnecessary and preventable cesareans is the most shocking result of this system. Cesarean rates have increased despite many female Ob/Gyns and pretty labor rooms. Researchers point out that obstetrical practice is often not rooted in actual science. For decades, enlightened doctors, government and independent agencies, along with activists, have called for change. Our system needs to cater to the essential needs of pregnant women/people and babies, to improve health while preventing complications whenever possible, to strengthen family bonds, and to provide excellent care for all.

Pregnant women/people/families deserve individualized, respectful, and science-based care that empowers them. They deserve providers who inform them of their options and support their choices.

My life is dedicated to educating and inspiring you to make informed decisions in alignment with Your values. Being actively involved in your care empowers you as a woman/person and a mother for the rest of your life.

U.S. maternity system is ill…

Dr. Vanita

I share my decades of professional knowledge, experience, and wisdom to empower YOU to move beyond fear and make informed choices for a safer, easier, and more beautiful birth. Since 1983, I have attended high-risk and normal births as an R.N., then a Nurse-Midwife. I have attended births and delivered babies in hospitals, medical centers, a midwifery-owned freestanding birth center, and my former home birth practice. If you desire a more joyful pregnancy and a more satisfying birth, this site is for YOU. Sidestep the standard snares that interfere daily with positive experiences of pregnancy, birth, and postpartum (after birth).

Modern medicine has gratefully saved many lives. However, many have suffered from routine interventions and unnecessary cesareans. Growing media attention points out the dangers of our unbalanced techno-medical approach. Understand the potential disadvantages of routine medical interventions before your first birth. Awakened women/people/families are searching for level-headed information and alternatives.

I have often heard women tell me, “I wish I knew what I know now!” after their delivery. Activists and progressive professionals have been blazing trails for decades to make pregnancy, birth, and postpartum care mother and baby-friendly. Now, the time has come.

Warmly, Dr. Vanita Lott

Certified Nurse-Midwife

 R.N., B.S.N., M.S.N, D.N.P.

Client Testimonials

These testimonials are from former clients. In my private practice, the In-Home Birth Center, pregnancy coaching was a priceless part of my client’s care. I have adapted these generous quotes to reflect the current services I offer as a highly educated and experienced holistic pregnancy coach and “Birth Inspirer”.

A Midwife's Prayer

May you remember that labor is about opening,
Maybe opening wider than you have ever opened before.
Labor is about trusting,
Trusting in a force, an intelligence, and a power,
Maybe more than you have ever experienced before.

Labor is about surrendering.
Surrendering to that power, dissolving in it, and allowing it to flow through you like a mighty river.

Birth is about letting go,
Letting go of all your ideas about yourself, life, and birth,
Letting go of fears,
And letting go of your baby.

It is time to open up, trust and surrender.
By letting go, you will have your baby in a new way,
In your arms and nourished at your warm breasts.

You now have yourself in a new way,
Open, powerful and invincible,
“I now know I can do anything!”

Written for a client’s Blessingway ceremony by:
Dr. Vanita, Nurse-Midwife

Vanita’s knowledge and expertise mixed with her heart, wisdom and practical skills made for such a positive and supportive experience. As new parents, Vanita helped us to feel confident in what lie ahead and always kept us informed on the most holistic choices available to us throughout pregnancy and labor, but at the same time respecting and giving us the space to make our own decisions.

I felt supported above and beyond my expectations and looked forward to my visits… From nutritional counseling, to visualization and affirmations, to helping my husband and I bond … as we prepared for this major life change… We appreciated her medical expertise as various issues came up during the pregnancy and birth, Vanita was always present and it made for such a wonderful journey! I hope that other very lucky women have the opportunity to have such a skilled and supportive experience as we did. What a blessing for our family she has been. Thank you for everything Vanita. We are so grateful!

— ELIANE ATWELL, Mother of Elanor